The RSVP Conundrum

Question for all current and former brides...

Is it just me or is it a little insulting when people RSVP "no" to your wedding? I have had a couple responses of "no" and with most of them there is a carefully written and heartfelt apology as to why they can't attend...with the others it's just a zero, which feels a little harsh and cold. Maybe I'm taking it a little to heart, but I can't help but get my feelings hurt...is my party not good enough for them?

I must admit...it stings.