Tuesday, January 26, 2010

The RSVP Conundrum

Question for all current and former brides...

Is it just me or is it a little insulting when people RSVP "no" to your wedding? I have had a couple responses of "no" and with most of them there is a carefully written and heartfelt apology as to why they can't attend...with the others it's just a zero, which feels a little harsh and cold. Maybe I'm taking it a little to heart, but I can't help but get my feelings hurt...is my party not good enough for them?

I must admit...it stings.

4 comments:

Molly said...

dont take it personally. people are told now they do not need to give a reason for not coming. we are coming by the way.

Meredith said...

Not nearly as much as the people who RSVP yes and then don't show!

Chelsea said...

I definitely felt that way too! I like when the "no" is accompanied by a nice reason why.

By th way, LOVE your invitations. They are perfect!

Voskuils in Spain said...

When it comes down to your actual wedding day, you won't remember who was there or not, so don't take it personally. Just know for when you get your next invitation, think of that bride and write a nice note! Hang in there woman...it won't be long!!!