tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755267304929646604.post9196714162180721008..comments2014-10-19T23:30:22.583-05:00Comments on Life in La La's Land: White FlagLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08154281767386215271noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755267304929646604.post-44971761617638656782012-01-24T15:17:44.201-06:002012-01-24T15:17:44.201-06:00But women who don't breastfeed or co-sleep or ...But women who don't breastfeed or co-sleep or all that other stuff can still raise healthy and well-adjusted children. It's not an either or situation.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08154281767386215271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755267304929646604.post-6494519550474622402012-01-24T09:32:19.983-06:002012-01-24T09:32:19.983-06:00Mud Mama - I see what you're saying and there ...Mud Mama - I see what you're saying and there is some truth to that, but I've also encountered snide remarks in person and I also think that the media eggs it on as well.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08154281767386215271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755267304929646604.post-46756933421022704662012-01-24T08:49:32.412-06:002012-01-24T08:49:32.412-06:00I don't think it's about thinking we'r...I don't think it's about thinking we're doing it wrong or we don't love our children. <br /><br />The wars are about feeling judged yes, but not on our love for our children. <br /><br />I think its all about feeling ISOLATED. That's why the mommy wars are online, not happening in face to face dealings with one another. I think it's easy to misinterpret tone online as well. a mother who blogs or writes on a forum about research she's done on any parenting issue is probably sharing because it's important to *her* and then everyone on the internet has an opinion and the war isn't in the body of that post, it's in the comments. Its i defensive comments and its in supportive comments and were it a real live conversation no one would be getting their hackles raised.Kerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12730940231520639971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755267304929646604.post-41611945397518304252012-01-23T21:59:53.187-06:002012-01-23T21:59:53.187-06:00Thank you for posting this. I get so sick of the ...Thank you for posting this. I get so sick of the debates as well. None of it matters one bit in comparison to your child's happiness!! Well said!!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13310715071011930955noreply@blogger.com